At RSVP, we believe meaningful connections begin with kindness, honesty and respect.
We’re committed to creating a welcoming environment where people can meet, connect and explore relationships while feeling safe and respected.
To help make RSVP a positive experience for everyone, we ask all members to follow our Community Guidelines.
These guidelines apply to your profile, photos, Winks, Chats and all interactions with other RSVP members.
1. Be Respectful and Kind
Everyone deserves to be treated with respect, regardless of their background, beliefs, appearance or relationship preferences.
When interacting with other members:
- Be polite and considerate.
- Respect other people’s opinions, preferences and boundaries.
- Accept that not everyone will be interested in connecting.
- Avoid offensive, insulting or degrading language.
- Never threaten, intimidate, bully or harass another member.
Remember: If someone doesn’t respond to your Wink or message, or tells you they’re not interested, respect their decision.
Repeatedly contacting or pressuring someone who has declined your interest is not acceptable.
2. Be Genuine and Honest
RSVP is designed to help genuine people form meaningful connections.
We expect members to provide accurate information about themselves and their intentions.
This means:
- Use your own identity and photographs.
- Provide accurate information about your age and personal circumstances.
- Be honest about what you’re looking for.
- Don’t impersonate another person.
- Don’t create fake or misleading profiles.
- Don’t use someone else’s photographs without permission.
Creating accounts to deceive, manipulate or mislead other members is not permitted.
We may request additional information or identity verification if we need to confirm the authenticity of an account.
3. Use Appropriate Profile Photos and Content
Your RSVP profile should represent you accurately and respectfully.
When uploading photos or writing your profile description:
- Use genuine photos of yourself.
- Make sure your photos are appropriate for a dating platform.
- Avoid offensive, sexually explicit or inappropriate content.
- Don’t upload photos containing children.
- Don’t use images that belong to someone else without permission.
- Avoid including personal contact information in your profile.
Photos and profile content must comply with RSVP’s photo and content guidelines.
RSVP may reject or remove content that doesn’t meet these requirements.
4. Respect Privacy and Personal Boundaries
Protecting your own privacy and respecting the privacy of others is an important part of online dating.
You must not:
- Share another member’s personal information without their permission.
- Publish or distribute private conversations, photos or personal details without consent.
- Pressure someone to share their phone number, address or other personal information.
- Attempt to access another member’s account.
- Use another person’s information for harassment, impersonation or other harmful purposes.
Respecting someone’s boundaries also means accepting their decision not to continue a conversation or relationship.
5. No Scams, Fraud or Financial Solicitation
RSVP has zero tolerance for scams and fraudulent activity.
Members must not use RSVP to:
- Request money, loans, gifts or financial assistance from other members.
- Promote fraudulent investment opportunities, including cryptocurrency schemes.
- Request banking details, passwords or other sensitive financial information.
- Deceive members for financial or personal gain.
- Recruit others into suspicious financial arrangements.
- Engage in identity theft or other fraudulent behaviour.
If someone you’ve met on RSVP asks you for money or financial assistance, we strongly recommend that you don’t send it.
You can report suspicious activity directly through the member’s profile.
6. No Harassment, Threats or Discrimination
RSVP does not tolerate abusive or threatening behaviour.
This includes:
- Bullying, harassment or intimidation.
- Threats of violence or harm.
- Hate speech or discriminatory abuse.
- Unwanted sexual comments or advances.
- Repeated unwanted contact.
- Blackmail, extortion or threats to share private information.
Members must respect other people’s decisions and boundaries, both online and offline.
If another member makes you uncomfortable, you can block or report them.
7. Keep Conversations Appropriate
We encourage friendly, genuine and respectful conversations.
When communicating through Winks or Chats:
- Be considerate and respectful.
- Avoid sending offensive or sexually explicit messages.
- Don’t pressure someone to respond.
- Don’t repeatedly send unwanted messages.
- Respect requests to stop communicating.
- Don’t use RSVP Chats to advertise products or services.
A positive Wink or an ongoing conversation doesn’t mean someone is obligated to respond, meet in person or continue communicating.
Everyone has the right to decide who they want to connect with.
8. No Advertising, Spam or Commercial Solicitation
RSVP is intended for personal dating connections, not unsolicited advertising or commercial activities.
Members must not use RSVP to:
- Promote businesses, products or services.
- Send spam or repetitive promotional messages.
- Recruit members for unrelated commercial activities.
- Promote external websites or suspicious links.
- Use automated accounts or messaging tools to contact members without authorisation.
Profiles or messages used primarily for advertising or solicitation may be removed.
9. Members Must Be 18 Years or Older
RSVP is an adult dating platform.
You must be at least 18 years old to create an account or use RSVP.
We do not permit:
- Accounts belonging to anyone under 18.
- Photos containing children in member profiles.
- Child sexual abuse material or any form of child sexual exploitation.
- Attempts to use RSVP to contact or exploit minors.
RSVP has zero tolerance for child sexual exploitation and abuse.
Accounts or content involving suspected child exploitation may be removed and referred to the appropriate authorities where required.
For more information, see Child Safety on RSVP.
RSVP reserves the right to:
- Review profiles, messages, and activity
- Request additional verification
- Remove content or accounts that breach guidelines
- Restrict or terminate access to the platform at any time
These measures help protect the integrity, safety, and authenticity of the RSVP community.
We want RSVP to remain a welcoming and genuine place where people can safely connect and build meaningful relationships.
By following these guidelines, you help create a better experience for everyone.